Lillian Strough

Lillian was a loving and generous person who was always there when her family needed her. She was the kind of mom and grandmother who stepped in to help, whether that meant babysitting the kids, lending a hand, or simply being there to provide the support her family needed during busy times. She gave her time freely and made herself available to the people she loved. She was feisty and spirited, never afraid to speak her mind, and had a warmth and generosity that made people feel cared for and welcome.

Lillian had a special love for children and spent many years as a foster parent, opening her home and her heart to countless children who needed someone to care for them. She also had an enormous soft spot for animals. Stray cats seemed to know they had found the right person when they crossed Lillian’s path. She took them in, cared for them, and before long they were no longer strays—they were family.

Lillian was a hard worker and spent many years working for Associated Services for the Blind in Philadelphia. There, she helped make books accessible to people who were blind by translating them into Braille. She also handled the organization’s finances, a responsibility that reflected the trust others placed in her. Her work was a meaningful part of her life and reflected her desire to contribute and help others.

Lillian was also a dedicated member of ULT, United Lodge of Theosophy, where she found a sense of community, fellowship, and friendship.

Lillian was an avid thrifter and loved finding a bargain, although her shopping was rarely about herself. She especially enjoyed searching for treasures and finding just the right gifts for the people she loved, particularly her children and grandchildren. Christmas at Lillian’s house meant one thing: trash bags full of presents. Giving to others was simply part of who she was.

Lillian was a true people person. She loved talking with her neighbors, friends, and anyone willing to sit down and have a conversation. She enjoyed keeping up with the lives of the people around her and could always find something to talk about. Her lively spirit and genuine interest in others made even an ordinary conversation special.

Lillian was a true night owl who followed her own schedule and enjoyed life in her own way. She loved a good book, game shows, playing cards—especially pinochle—and collecting dolls. She was perfectly content to pursue whatever interested her, whenever she pleased, and she never seemed particularly concerned with keeping to anyone else’s timetable.

To her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, she was lovingly known as Mommom. Visits with Mommom were always special, and no matter when they came to see her, there was almost certainly a gift waiting for them. Her generosity, humor, strong personality, and willingness to always be there for her family created memories that will stay with them for a lifetime.

Lillian is predeceased by her husband, William. She is survived by her children, Bill Jr. (Rita), Robert, Steven, David (Robin), and Wenda Bonazza (Frank); her grandson Nicholas (Stephanie), whom she raised as a son; 15 grandchildren; and 21 great-grandchildren.

Please join us in celebrating 83 great years of Lillian’s life on Saturday, September 19th, from 9:00–11:00 a.m., with an 11:00 a.m. service at Sweeney Funeral Home in Riverside. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to  Samaritan Hospice.